Your 3 Unplanned Pregnancy Options

Your Unplanned Pregnancy, Month by Month


What to Expect Week to Week [And What Your Options are]

Many expectant parents faced with an unplanned pregnancy have 3 options to consider: adoption, abortion and parenting. Parenting isn’t always a realistic or ideal option for everyone, and you will need to act quickly if you are set on getting an abortion. If neither of these options are feasible or appealing to you, adoption is a reasonable option at any point in you pregnancy.

In this article, you will learn about what your unplanned pregnancy options look like in each month, and what you can expect from your pregnancy week by week.

First Trimester

One Month into your Unplanned Pregnancy (Weeks 0-4)

Your one month pregnancy options:

  • Adoption: Adoption is a brave and selfless decision to make for you baby. If you manage to learn of your unplanned pregnancy in the first 1-4 weeks, and you are confident that you aren’t ready to parent but don’t want an abortion, adoption might be for you. At this stage in the pregnancy, you will have plenty of time to come up with an adoption plan.
  • Abortion: If you feel you aren’t ready to parent and don’t want to carry the baby to term, you have options for abortion at 1-4 weeks pregnant. Abortion laws vary state to state, and are typically less strict the earlier in your pregnancy you are. In your first month of pregnancy and don’t’ want the baby, contact a medical professional to learn more about how to abort a baby at 1-4 weeks pregnant.
  • Parenting: If you’re faced with an unplanned pregnancy and decide you are ready to be a parent, now could be a time to start planning for the arrival of your new family member. These early weeks are a crucial time to really evaluate your options and make sure that you are making the right choice for you.

Two Months Pregnant and Don’t Want the Baby

Your two month pregnancy options:

  • Adoption: If you’ve decided you’re not ready to parent, you might be wondering: “If I’m 2 months pregnant, can I give my baby up for adoption?” Yes, adoption is always an option. You’re giving your baby a chance at the life that you may not be able to provide. In fact, choosing adoption at this point will give you time to choose an adoption agency, create an adoption plan, choose the adoptive parents, etc.
  • Abortion: If you’re not ready to become a parent and don’t want to complete a pregnancy, abortion is a valid option. Whether you are 5 weeks pregnant or 8 weeks pregnant, abortion options are available during the second month of pregnancy.  Abortion laws very state to state depending how far you are into your pregnancy. At two months, abortion would be a viable option.
  • Parenting: If you feel that you are ready to become a parent, you are free to make that decision. If parenting is a realistic option for you, then you may begin planning for the wonderful journey into parenthood.

What to Expect (Weeks 5-8)

Week 5: This is when a lot of parents find out they’re pregnant. At week 5, your baby will be the size of an apple seed. Your body will begin undergoing a wide array of changes as a result of an increase in pregnancy hormones. Some don’t experience any symptoms at all. Many have reported that their first trimester is the most difficult in terms of symptoms.

Symptoms: Aching breasts, morning sickness, frequent urination, cramps, fatigue, spotting.

Options: If you’re asking yourself,At 5 weeks pregnant, what are my options?” The earlier you are in your pregnancy, the more options you have, including adoption, abortion and parenting. If you are 5 weeks pregnant and don’t want the baby, abortion and adoption are both possibilities for you. Talk to your doctor to learn more about your pregnancy termination options at 5 weeks, or contact an adoption professional for free, unbiased pregnancy counseling. An unplanned pregnancy counselor can also talk with you about your parenting, adoption and abortion options at 5 weeks pregnant.

Week 6: Your baby is the size of a pea at 6 weeks of pregnancy. This is a common time to find out you’re pregnant. You will want to start talking to a medical professional as your pregnancy begins to progress. If you’re 6 weeks pregnant and don’t want the baby, you can also discuss abortion options available at 6 weeks. If you’re not sure if abortion is for you, you can reach out to an adoption agency to learn more about adoption at 6 weeks pregnant.

Symptoms: Aching breasts, morning sickness, frequent urination, cramps, fatigue, spotting.

Week 7: At 7 weeks, the embryo is the size of a blueberry. You might be able to detect a heartbeat at this point. You may start to notice changes in your skin. To help combat this, use a gentle cleanser and moisturizer

Symptoms: Aching breasts, morning sickness, frequent urination, cramps, fatigue, spotting, food cravings.

Options: If you’re not ready to parent and are wondering “What are my options at 7 weeks pregnant?” you can reach out to a medical professional to discuss your abortion options at 7 weeks pregnant. If you’re not sure if abortion is for you, you can contact a liscensed adoption professional who will answer your questions about your options at 7 weeks pregnant.

Week 8: At week 8, your baby is the size of raspberry. In between periods of nausea, take advantage of any feelings of hunger you might experience. You will feel the urge to urinate frequently. Be sure to go when you need to go so that you don’t contract a UTI. You’re nearing the time for your first prenatal appointment.

Symptoms: Aching breasts, morning sickness, frequent urination, cramps, fatigue, spotting, constipation.

Options: If you’re 8 weeks pregnant and don’t want the baby, you have a few choices available to you. If you’re wondering “I’m 8 weeks pregnant, what are my abortion options?” Reach out to a medical professional to learn more about termination at 8 weeks. If this isn’t for you, you adoption at 8 weeks is also an option. You can contact a licensed adoption agency to get more helpful information about the adoption process.

Three Months Pregnant and Don’t Want the Baby

Your three-month pregnancy options:

  • Adoption: While placing your baby for adoption is a difficult decision, it is selfless one that comes from a place of love and wanting the best life possible for your baby. While choosing adoption early on in your pregnancy might allow you more time to plan your adoption before the baby is born, adoption is available to you at any point during your pregnancy.
  • Abortion: While you have the choice to abort, it might be more difficult the further you get into your pregnancy depending on state laws. Some states have laws placing restrictions on abortion as early as 6 weeks. Because of this, if you are 9-13 weeks pregnant, abortion options should be discussed with a doctor or abortion clinic as soon as possible if this is a path you are considering.
  • Parenting: While the pregnancy may be unplanned, if you feel parenting is a realistic option for you, then this accident could become a blessing in disguise.

What you Can Expect (Weeks 9-13)

Week 9: Your baby is about the size of a cherry at this stage. At 9 weeks, you might consider transitioning to wearing stretchy fabrics to make yourself more comfortable as your baby starts to take shape. At this point, many people will begin announcing their pregnancy.

Symptoms: Heartburn, nasal congestion, morning sickness, frequent urination, cramps, fatigue, headaches.

Options: If you’re not ready to parent, you can discuss your 9 weeks pregnant abortion options at with your doctor or consider adoption. If you are 9 weeks pregnant and want to “give the baby up” for adoption, or learn more about adoption as an option, you can always contact an adoption agency to get more information.

Week 10: At week 10, your baby is the size of a strawberry.

It’s important to consider taking a prenatal vitamin, and to make sure you’re getting plenty of vitamin C and D, and folic acid. You may begin to show around this time as your baby continues to grow.

Symptoms: Increased breast size, fatigue, morning sickness, mood swings, and increased discharge.

Options: If you’re 10 weeks pregnant and don’t want to be pregnant anymore, you have options available to you. You can talk to your doctor about your 10 weeks pregnant abortion options. Adoption is always an option for you at this point as well. Contact a liscensed adoption professional that can answer any questions you have and provide you with free information about adoption.

Week 11: Your baby will be as big as a lime at 11 weeks.  

At this stage in your pregnancy, it’s important that you are getting plenty of calcium so that you can be sure the baby will have healthy bones and teeth. Be sure that you are walking regularly. It’s an easy and gentle form of exercise that can be a good way to stretch your joints.

Symptoms: Fatigue, nausea, gas, leg cramps, vaginal discharge, skin darkening.

Options: If you’re thinking to yourself “I’m 11 weeks pregnant and I don’t want my baby,” you are not alone. At 11 weeks, abortion is still an option that you can discuss with a medical professional.  You also have the option to place your child for adoption. Reach out to an adoption counselor today to begin creating your adoption plan.

Week 12: Your baby is the size of a plum at 12 weeks.

You may be experiencing soreness in your breasts as your body prepares itself to breastfeed. Wearing comfortable, loose clothing can help ease some of the tenderness. Continue walking regularly as a way to increase your circulation and stretch your legs. This would be a good time to schedule your 16-week prenatal visit.

Symptoms: Headaches, increased discharge, nausea, dizziness.

Options: If at this point you no longer want to be pregnant, you can talk with your doctor about pregnancy termination options at 12 weeks. If you are comfortable carrying your pregnancy to term but don’t want to parent, adoption is always available to you. Contact an adoption professional today to get more information on the opportunities available to you through adoption.

Week 13: Your baby is the size of a lemon by week 13. 

At this point in time, it might be worth doing pelvic floor exercises to provide your body with some extra support as your baby continues to grow. Many parents get an ultrasound at 13 weeks as your baby has formed most of their important body parts.

Symptoms: Increased energy, increased sex drive, visible veins.

Options: If you’re 3 months pregnant and don’t want the baby, you have two options available to you: abortion or adoption. You can talk to your doctor about your abortion options at 13 weeks. If abortion isn’t for you, you can choose adoption at any time. Reach out to an adoption professional now to get more free information on the adoption process.

The Second Trimester

Four Months Pregnant and Don’t Want the Baby

Your four-month pregnancy options:

  • Adoption: “I am four months pregnant and don’t want to be. Can I put my baby up for an adoption?” Yes – this is absolutely a possibility if you are four months pregnant and don’t want the baby or don’t feel prepared to raise him or her. While you might see phrases like “give your baby up for adoption,” it’s important to remember that you are not giving up. You are making a brave choice to give your baby a chance at the best life possible. With adoption, you can even maintain some form of contact with your baby’s adoptive family if you so choose.Whenever you decide what you feel is best for you, adoption will always be there for you.
  • Abortion: While abortion is a valid choice if you have decided you are not ready to parent, there may be more restrictions the further you get into your pregnancy. The degree of these restrictions varies state to state, but, in general, your options for terminating during the second trimester of pregnancy will be more limited. While you shouldn’t rush this decision, bear in mind that you may have to act fast if you want an abortion.
  • Parenting: By this point, if you have decided that you are ready to take on the responsibilities of parenthood despite the suddenness of your pregnancy, there are many resources available to you to help you get started. It’s important that you are absolutely sure that this is what you want. Parenthood is a wonderful journey to embark on.

What to Expect (Weeks 14-17)

Week 14:  By week 14, your baby is growing quickly, but the worst of the pregnancy symptoms should be behind you. Your baby is the size of a peach at this point.

If you’re 14 weeks pregnant and don’t want to be pregnant anymore, you might be wondering what your options are.

Symptoms: Shinier hair, increased appetite, increased energy.

Options: You can talk with your doctor to discuss what your 14 weeks pregnant abortion options look like. If you’re willing to carry the baby to term but aren’t ready to parent, adoption might be the best choice for you. You can get free information here from an adoption professional that is eager to help.

Week 15: At 15 weeks, your baby is the size of an orange. Some parents will schedule a multiple marker screen to ensure you and the baby are healthy.

Symptoms: Heartburn, shortness of breath, swollen gums, increased libido.

Options: If you have decided at 15 weeks pregnant that you don’t want the baby, you don’t have to parent. If you’re wondering about your 15 weeks pregnant abortion options, you can talk to your doctor to learn more about the procedure. If you don’t feel abortion is the right choice for you, adoption is always an option. Contact an adoption agency to get more information on how you can give your baby the best life possible through adoption.

Week 16:  At 16 weeks, your baby is the size of an avocado. You might feel the baby becoming more active. You should consider scheduling your mid-pregnancy ultrasound and 20-week prenatal visit.

Symptoms: Backaches, constipation, glowing skin, increased breast size.

Options: Your pregnancy termination options at 16 weeks might be a bit more limited depending on your state’s restrictions. You can talk to a medical professional to see if this is a potential option for you. If it is not or you decide abortion isn’t for you, consider adoption. You can get free information and support from an adoption professional here while you weigh your options.

Week 17: Your baby is the size of a pomegranate at 17 weeks. This is close to the halfway point of your pregnancy. You’re approaching the point where you can find out the baby’s gender if you so choose.

Symptoms: Stretch marks, weight gain, weird dreams.

Options: If you’re considering abortion at 17 weeks pregnant, termination options may be limited depending on your state’s restrictions. Talk to your doctor to see if this is still a possibility for you. If you are not able to terminate or do not want to, adoption is always an option. Contact an adoption agency to get connected with an adoption professional that can answer your questions and help you weigh your options.

Five Months Pregnant and Don’t Want the Baby

Your five-month pregnancy options:

  • Adoption: Many women ask, “Can I give my baby up for adoption at 5 months pregnant?” Not only is the answer yes, you can get an adoption started at five months pregnant, but this can also be an amazing way to provide do something positive with your unplanned pregnancy. Adoption is a brave and selfless decision to make for your baby. It allows your baby to have the best life they can have, while enabling you to continue you on with the path you had intended for your life. Adoption is always a valid option to pursue at any point in your pregnancy.
  • Abortion: If you’re thinking “I don’t want to be pregnant but I’m 5 months along,” you might be considering abortion. While abortion is a valid choice if you are not ready to be a parent, by this point in your pregnancy, you may be past the ability to receive an abortion based on your state’s laws. This isn’t a decision to rush into, but you may need to act fast.
  • Parenting: Parenting is a wonderful journey if you feel that it is a realistic option for you. If you want to parent but aren’t sure where to start, there are resources available to you to help you plan your first steps of parenthood.

What to Expect (Weeks 18-22)

Week 18: By week 18, your baby is as big as an artichoke. At this point in your pregnancy, it’s important you are getting plenty of rest. Since your baby is growing pretty rapidly by this point, you might want to begin sleeping on your side.

Symptoms: Backaches, baby kicks, leg cramps, swollen feet and hands.

Options: If you’re 18 weeks pregnant and don’t want the baby, you have the freedom to make that choice. Depending on your state’s laws, you may not be able to get an abortion at this point. You can contact a medical professional in your area to make sure. If this is the case, adoption is always available to you. You can contact an adoption agency to learn more about what the adoption process entails and how it can benefit you and your baby.

Week 19: Your baby is as big as mango at 19 weeks. Since your baby is growing so quickly, your appetite will increase as your baby needs more nutrients. Make sure you are eating enough for the both of you.

Symptoms: Dizziness, leg cramps, hip pain, backaches.

Options: If you’re not ready to become a parent you might be asking, “I’m 19 weeks and I don’t want my baby, what do I do?” There are choices other than parenting. The further you get into your pregnancy the less likely is that you will be able to get an abortion. If this isn’t an option for you, there is always adoption. You can choose adoption at any point in your pregnancy. To learn more, reach out to an adoption professional to get more information on the benefits of adoption.

Week 20: Your baby is as big as a banana at 20 weeks. You are approaching the time where you will be able to find out your baby’s gender if you so choose. You will also want to schedule your 24-week prenatal visit.

Symptoms: Swelling, shortness of breath, leg cramps, vaginal discharge,

Options: If you’re 20 weeks pregnant and don’t want the baby, that is okay. You have options that aren’t parenting available to you. While abortion may not be a viable option at this point, adoption is. Contact an adoption agency now to learn more about how you can start your adoption journey today.

Week 21: Your baby is the size of an endive at 21 weeks. You will most likely feel your baby moving around a lot. You should consider scheduling your glucose challenge test. You are more than halfway through your pregnancy.

If you don’t want to parent and the time to receive an abortion has passed, you might be asking, “Can I put a baby up for adoption at 21 weeks pregnant?” You absolutely can choose adoption at 21 weeks. Adoption is a beautiful and selfless choice and you can get more information on the process by reaching out to an adoption professional today.

Symptoms: Stretch marks, Braxton Hicks contractions, heartburn, involuntary lactation.

Week 22: At 22 weeks, your baby is the size of a coconut. Make sure you are getting plenty of rest and staying up to date on your doctor’s appointments.

Symptoms: Swollen hands and feet, increased sex drive, stretch marks, backaches.

Options: If at this point in your pregnancy you begin to think, “I’m 22 weeks pregnant and don’t want the baby,” you can choose not to parent. While abortion is unlikely at this point, you can still choose adoption. By choosing adoption you will have complete control over the process at all times. Reach out to an adoption professional today to get more information about the services and resources available to you with adoption.

Six Months Pregnant and Don’t Want the Baby

Your six-month pregnancy options:

  • Adoption:  If you’re wondering, “Can I put a baby up for adoption if I am 6 months pregnant?” Yes, adoption is always an option. Adoption is a difficult, but brave and selfless decision. Adoption comes at no cost to the birth parents. Reach out to an adoption professional today to learn more about the many resources available to you such as financial assistance, 24/7 counseling, free education, and more.  At this point in your pregnancy, adoption is still a valid option.
  • Abortion: Your unwanted pregnancy options at 6 months are more limited. While wanting an abortion is valid choice, it is unlikely this far into your pregnancy due to state restrictions. If you feel the pregnancy puts your life in danger, please speak to your healthcare provider.
  • Parenting: If you feel that you are ready to take on the responsibility of parenthood, there are many resources available to help you begin planning for the arrival of your baby.

What to Expect (Weeks 23-27)

Week 23: Your baby is the size of a grapefruit. At 23 weeks, baby’s development is rapidly increasing. You may find yourself more fatigued as your body tries to support your growing baby. Be sure to get plenty of rest and make sure you’re being gentle on your body.

Symptoms: Swollen ankles and feet, backaches, Braxton Hicks contractions, swollen gums.

Options: If you don’t want to parent and are wondering at 6 months pregnant “What are my options?” you have the freedom to choose. While an abortion is likely not going to be possible at this point, adoption is a great choice. Adoption will give your baby the life they deserve and allow you to achieve the goals you had set for yourself. Contact an adoption professional today to get more information on the services an adoption agency can provide you with.

Week 24: At 24 weeks, your baby is the size of a cantaloupe. Make sure to schedule your 28-week prenatal visit. You should be visiting with your doctor at least once a month by this point in your pregnancy. You should also be ready to take your glucose challenge test.

Symptoms: Backaches, leg cramps, swollen ankles and feet, stretch marks.

Options: If you sure at 24 weeks you don’t want your baby, you have other options. Abortion might not be possible at 24 weeks due to state restrictions, but you adoption is always viable. Reach out to an adoption agency to get connected with an adoption professional who can talk to you about your options.

Week 25: Your baby is the size of a head of cauliflower at 25 weeks. Make sure you have taken your glucose challenge test. This test evaluates your blood sugar levels to be sure you and your baby are getting enough nutrients.

Symptoms:  Heartburn, bloating, hemorrhoids, constipation, frequent urination.

Options: If you’re 25 weeks pregnant but don’t want the baby, adoption is absolutely an option for you. Adoption is a selfless choice that comes from a place of love. You’re giving your baby a better life while being able to continue on your own life path. By working with an adoption agency you will have access to many helpful resources and services. Contact an adoption professional here to learn more about the opportunities adoption can give you and your baby.

Week 26: At 26 weeks, your baby is as big as kale. You may have difficulty sleeping because your baby is becoming increasingly active. Be sure that you are resting as often as possible. You might consider pre-registering with your hospital at this point.

Symptoms: High blood pressure, Braxton Hicks contractions, headaches, swelling, trouble sleeping.

Options: If you’re 26 weeks pregnant but don’t want the baby, you can choose adoption at any point in your pregnancy. If you choose adoption and then change your mind, you are free to do so at any time before the adoption is finalized or before the revocation period expires. Get in touch with an adoption professional today to get answers to any questions you may have about the adoption process.

Week 27: Your baby is as big as a head of lettuce. You are most likely going through a lot of emotions at 27 weeks in your pregnancy if you have decided you are not going to parent. You should start coming up with your hospital plan so that you can be as prepared as possible when it’s time to deliver your baby.

Symptoms: Leg cramps, backaches, hemorrhoids, constipation.

Options: If you find yourself 27 weeks pregnant and don’t want the baby, you can always choose adoption. Adoption will allow you to continue on towards your goals while giving your baby the best life possible. To get more information about the adoption process and how it can help you, contact an adoption professional today.

Third Trimester

Seven Months Pregnant and Don’t Want the Baby

Your seven-month pregnancy options:

  • Adoption: If you’re wondering “Can I put my baby up for adoption if I’m 7 months pregnant?” Absolutely. Adoption is still available to you, even in your 7th month of pregnancy. It’s a great way to give your baby the life they deserve while also giving hopeful adoptive parents the family they have always dreamed of. It’s not too late to choose adoption. In fact, this is when a lot of birth parents begin the adoptive process. If you’re seriously considering adoption but aren’t sure where to start you can reach out to an adoption agency that can answer your questions and outline the adoption process to you.Once you have a feel for the adoption process your adoption professional will help you create an adoption plan where you will be able to list what you’re looking for in an adoptive family and how open you’d like the adoption to be. You will always have control over the adoption process. You will be able to choose the adoptive family from a list of profiles presented to you by your adoption professional. Once you pick the adoptive family that will raise your child, you have the option of meeting them in person. Once the adoption is finalized you will be able to watch your child grow and even be able to meet them some day if you would like.

    If you’re considering giving your baby the life they deserve by choosing adoption, reach out to an adoption agency today to get started with your adoption journey.

  • Abortion: Many women who are 7 months pregnant and don’t want the baby inquire about abortion. However justified your desire to abort is, it most likely won’t happen at this point, per state restrictions. If you feel your pregnancy is putting your health at risk, speak with a medical professional.
  • Parenting: If you feel you are ready to raise a child, an unexpected pregnancy can turn into a beautiful opportunity. There are many resources available to you if you need help getting started.

What to Expect (Weeks 28-31)

Week 28: You are now into the third trimester! Your baby is the size of an eggplant at 28 weeks. Make sure that you have started your hospital plan. It might even be a good idea to take a tour of the hospital. Be sure to schedule your 30-week prenatal visit.

Symptoms: Braxton Hicks contractions, shortness of breath, trouble sleeping, involuntary lactation.

Options: If you’re 28 weeks pregnant and want to give your baby up adoption, it’s not too late. You can choose adoption at any point in your pregnancy. No matter when you make the decision, it is always a brave and selfless one. Do your research and contact an adoption professional today to get more information on the many benefits of choosing adoption.

Week 29: Your baby is the size of an acorn squash at 29 weeks. You might start preparing your overnight bag for your hospital stay, just so that you have it handy and don’t have to worry about it when the big day comes.

Symptoms: Constipation, hemorrhoids, trouble sleeping, frequent urination, headaches.

Options: By this point, if you’re thinking “I don’t want my baby,” at 29 weeks, adoption might be the best choice for you. Of course, this choice only you can make if you feel it is what’s best for you and your baby. Adoption will give your baby the chance to have the life you may not be able to provide, and allows you to continue on with the life you had planned for yourself. To get access to the many resources and services of adoption, reach out to an adoption professional now.

Week 30: At 30 weeks, your baby is the size of a zucchini. Talk to your doctor to make sure that you have all your third trimester pregnancy tests completed. Schedule your 32-week prenatal visit.

Symptoms: Swelling, shortness of breath, trouble sleeping, heartburn.

Options: If you’re 30 weeks pregnant and considering adoption, this is an option that’s definitely available to you. You can choose adoption at any point in your pregnancy. It’s a brave and selfless decision that isn’t made lightly. When you work with an adoption agency you will have access to many helpful resource and services such as 24/7 counseling, financial aid, free adoption education, etc. To get access to these benefits and more, reach out to an adoption professional today.

Week 31: Your baby is the size of a pineapple at 31 weeks. If you know you aren’t ready to parent, you might consider getting involved with counseling to help you cope with the complex array of emotions you might be experiencing at this point in your pregnancy.

Symptoms: Shortness of breath, Braxton Hicks contractions, trouble sleeping, backaches.

Options: If you’re 31 weeks pregnant and don’t want the baby, adoption could be the best choice for you and your baby. Adoption is available to you at any point during your pregnancy, and even after the baby is born. If you want to learn more about what the adoption process looks like and how you can benefit from it, contact an adoption agency today to get more information.

Eight Months Pregnant and Don’t Want the Baby

Your eight-month pregnancy options:

  • Adoption: If you feel you parent, you might be wondering “Is it possible to give a child up for adoption after 8 months of pregnancy?” Yes, you certainly can. Adoption is a wonderful way to give your baby a better life with a loving family, while allowing you to have the life you had planned for yourself.  Adoption is always an option that’s available to you.As a birth parent, adoption is completely free to you, and your adoption professional will work with the adoptive family to cover your pregnancy related expenses and medical bills. You will also have access to 24/7 guidance and counseling to help cope with the feelings of grief and loss than can accompany adoption.  You will have complete control throughout the adoption process and will be able to choose the family who will raise your baby, as well as the openness of the adoption. This will allow you to watch your baby grow and maintain a degree of contact with them as they get older. If you’re “giving up your baby” at 8 months, contact an adoption agency to get started with the adoption process.
  • Abortion: Most states don’t allow abortion this far into your pregnancy unless it is an extreme case where the pregnancy puts your life in danger. If this is the case, do not wait to consult with a medical professional. Otherwise, if you are 8 months pregnant and don’t want the baby, reach out to an adoption professional to get free information about your options.
  • Parenting: If you are 8 months into your unexpected pregnancy and are ready to pursue to the option of parenting, there are many resources available to you to help you get your feet on the ground.

What to Expect (Weeks 32-35)

Week 32: You’re almost to the big day! Your baby is as big as a squash at 32 weeks. You will want to schedule your 34-week prenatal visit.

Symptoms: Heartburn, shortness of breath, Braxton Hicks contractions, darker nipples.

Options: If you’re 32 weeks pregnant and don’t want the baby, adoption is an option for you. It’s never too late at any point in your pregnancy to choose adoption. When you work with an adoption agency you will have many beneficial services and resources at your disposal. To get more free information on these resources, contact an adoption agency today.

Week 33: Your baby is as big as celery at 33 weeks. Make sure you are paying close attention to your baby’s health when you are this far into your pregnancy. Make sure you have your hospital bag ready and that you have a plan for your postpartum care.

Symptoms: Headaches, shortness of breath, overheating.

Options: If you’re 33 weeks pregnant and don’t want the baby, consider choosing adoption. You can definitely choose adoption at 33 weeks pregnant. Adoption will allow you to live out your life as you planned while giving your baby the opportunity to grow up with a loving family. To learn more about adoption, contact an adoption agency to get connected with an adoption professional that can help you today.

 

Week 34: Your baby is the size of a butternut squash at 34 weeks. Your baby is almost done with its development! Make sure you schedule your 36-week prenatal visit.

Symptoms: Constipation, hemorrhoids, Braxton Hicks contractions, fatigue,

Options: Adoption is likely to be your best option if you’re 34 weeks pregnant and don’t want the baby. You can choose adoption at any point in your pregnancy. You will have complete control over the process and will have access to many helpful resources. Of course, if you aren’t sure you want to “give your baby up,” you can always choose parenting. Parenthood is a beautiful but challenging experience, and you should be absolutely sure that this is what you want.

Week 35:  Your baby is as big as a pineapple at 35 weeks. Start familiarizing yourself with the signs of labor. While you still have time till your due date, a premature birth is possible.

Symptoms: Constipation, pelvic aches, frequent urge to pee, Braxton Hicks contractions.

Options:  If you’re having second thoughts about parenting and are wondering “If I’m 35 weeks pregnant, can I give my baby up for adoption?” the answer is, yes. It’s never too late to choose adoption. Even after your baby is born, it will still be available to you. Working with an adoption agency will allow you to valuable resources like 24/7 counseling, financial assistance, and the ability to choose your baby’s adoptive family. To get access to these resources, reach out to an adoption professional today.

Nine Months Pregnant and Don’t Want the Baby

Your nine-month pregnancy options:

  • Adoption: If you’re in your ninth month of pregnancy, adoption is a beautiful way to give your baby the life they deserve. With an open adoption, you can move forward with your life and stay in contact with your baby’s adoptive family. Whether you are 36 weeks pregnant or 39 weeks pregnant and want to “give up” for adoption, or even if your baby has already been born, it is never too late to contact an adoption agency and start this process.
  • Parenting: You are almost on your way to becoming a parent! Parenthood is a beautiful journey. However, it’s important that you are sure that you want to be a parent, even if you think you are capable.

What to Expect (Weeks 36-40)

Week 36: Your baby is as big as a papaya. Make sure you schedule your 37-week prenatal visit. Even if you have decided that you are not going to be a parent, it’s important to make sure you are still looking out for your baby’s health at 36 weeks.

Symptoms: Swollen ankles and feet, heartburn, trouble sleeping, pelvic pain.

Options: If you’re 36 weeks pregnant and don’t want the baby, choosing adoption might be the best choice for you. It’s never too late to choose adoption and if you’re unsure, you can change your mind at any point before the adoption is finalized. Adoption will give your baby a chance at the best life possible and allow you to continue working towards your goals. To learn more about the adoption process, you can reach out to an adoption professional and get more information here.

Week 37: Your baby is the size of a head of romaine lettuce at 37 weeks. You will want to schedule your 38-week prenatal visit. You may begin experiencing symptoms of labor such as abdominal pressure and Braxton Hicks contractions.

Symptoms: Stretch marks, trouble sleeping, contractions, heartburn, spotting.

Options: If you’re unsure about adoption because you’re wondering “Is it possible to find adoptive parents within three weeks?” the answer is, yes. There are thousands of waiting adoptive families across the country are eager to adopt. An adoption professional will work with you to help you find the adoptive family you want to raise your child. To get started with the adoption process, reach out to an adoption professional now.

Week 38:  At 38 weeks, your baby is the size of a leek. Make sure you are confident in your hospital plan and postpartum care.

Symptoms: Trouble sleeping, swollen feet and ankles, anxiety, contractions.

Options: If you’re having your baby in 2 weeks and want to give them up for adoption, you certainly can. It’s not too late to choose adoption. You can begin the adoption process at any point in your pregnancy and even after if you are conflicted. If you’re not sure where to start, don’t hesitate to contact an adoption professional today to get answers to any questions you might have.

Week 39: Your baby is the size of a pumpkin at 39 weeks. The big day is right around the corner. Be sure to pay attention to any potential signs of labor that you may be experiencing.  Consider scheduling your 40-week prenatal visit.

Symptoms: Pelvic pressure, contractions, mucus plug.

Options: If by 39 weeks pregnant you don’t want the baby anymore, adoption is still a viable option for you. It’s never too late. An adoption professional will work with you to create an adoption plan and find the adoptive family that you feel is the perfect match to raise your baby. To get connected with an adoption professional, click here.

Week 40: By week 40, your baby is the size of a watermelon. At this point in time, your due date is right around the corner!  You should be in frequent contact with your doctor.

Symptoms: Fatigue, contractions, pelvic pressure, leg cramps, trouble sleeping.

Options: The adoption process at 40 weeks might happen a bit quicker than if it was earlier in your pregnancy, but it is still pretty much the same. Even at 40 weeks, adoption is still definitely an option for you. If you don’t make the decision until after you’ve arrived at the hospital, after the baby has been born or even after you’ve take the baby home, adoption will still be available to you. If you want to get started with your adoption journey today, reach out to an adoption professional that will help you take the first steps.

Final Thoughts

Throughout your pregnancy, you will have a few useful unplanned pregnancy options available to you: adoption, abortion, and parenting. Each offers its own opportunities and difficulties. If parenting isn’t realistic for you and abortion has become less viable per state restrictions because you are too far into your pregnancy, adoption is an unplanned pregnancy option that is always available to you. If you want to learn more about adoption or start the process today, you can get free information now by contacting an adoption agency.


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