Open Adoption in Utah
How to Stay Connected to Your Baby
Open adoption allows you to maintain a connection with your child after the adoption process is complete. You’ll stay a part of their life, watching them grow, experience milestones and see your decision play out right before your eyes.
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In this guide, we’ll help you understand what open adoption is, the type of communication involved and how it can help you find peace of mind knowing your decision led to a brighter future for your baby.
What is Open Adoption in Utah?
Open adoption in Utah is a form of adoption where birth parents and adoptive families maintain some level of contact and communication before and after the adoption process. This can include sharing information, regular updates, visits and more.
“Today, my son is almost 2 years old. He is a proud big brother to a beautiful little girl. His adoptive mom and dad became pregnant four months after adopting him! We are in constant contact, sharing emails, pictures, cards, and we even Skype.”- Kelly, Birth Mother.
The amount of information shared will depend on your comfort level and preferences, often differing from closed and semi-open adoptions, where communication and information sharing are either limited or nonexistent.
Below is a breakdown of each type of adoption:
- Open Adoption: Both parties agree to regular, ongoing contact. This can include exchanging letters, photos, phone calls, texts and even in-person visits. The extent of the relationship varies depending on the preferences set when creating your adoption plan.
- Closed Adoption: There is no contact or exchange of information with the adoptive family after the adoption is finalized. Your identity typically remains anonymous in a closed adoption.
- Semi-Open Adoption: This option provides a middle ground where communication is mediated by an adoption professional, and identifying information is often kept confidential. You may choose to receive updates or photos without direct contact.
Benefits of Open Adoption for Birth Parents in Utah
Open adoption can be a positive experience for birth mothers, providing several emotional and practical benefits:
You Choose Your Level of Contact
One of the key benefits of open adoption is the flexibility it offers birth mothers in choosing the level of contact they feel comfortable with. Whether you want to maintain regular communication or prefer limited updates, your adoption professional will work with you to find an adoptive family that shares your preferences.
“I fell in love with Brady and Diane instantly. I wanted to talk with them. They were kind, compassionate, non-judgmental and understanding. They called me their angel. We shared family stories. Our families were so similar. When I hung up the phone, I knew this was the family who was going to raise my baby.” – Sarah, Birth Mother.
Your adoption professional will help establish guidelines for communication, ensuring both you and the adoptive family are on the same page. They can also help you find a family that aligns with your desires for ongoing contact, helping you feel comfortable and confident during the process.
You Get to Maintain a Relationship With Your Child
Open adoption in Utah allows you to maintain a relationship with your child, whether through visits or other forms of communication. This ongoing connection can be a source of comfort and joy, knowing your decision was able to give your child a brighter future.
“I love still being able to have that connection with Juniper. I get all jittery thinking about it because it’s going to blow my mind when she’s five and she starts talking, and I can actually talk to her and have a conversation with her.” – Randi, Birth Mother.
Your Child Can Get Closure
Children in open adoptions have the opportunity to know where they come from, which can foster a strong sense of identity. Many adoptees who were once in a closed adoption often struggle with a sense of self, not knowing their origin or background.
Through open adoption, you can be a cheerleader on the sidelines and be there for them when they’re ready to learn more about their adoption story.
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Open adoption is a path that allows you to choose the level of involvement you want to have in your child’s life. It offers a unique opportunity to stay connected and ensure your child grows up with a full understanding of their origins.
If you’re ready to explore open adoption in Utah, reach out to an adoption professional today to learn more about your options and start your journey.